beautiful reminder..

The One who loves to heal

The human body has the capacity to naturally heal itself when damaged; the human heart does not. 

We must therefore pick up the pieces of our broken hearts, and give it to The One who loves to heal. 

For indeed, none has the capacity to heal but Him."

Purification of the soul

motivation words form Sheikh Yassin ..
dedicated to my beloved kids..
Shahmie, Kamilia and Ayman


Don't allow your fears to run your life. See fear for what it is , False Evidence Appearing Real. Don't give up your strength to the ill critics in your life. Trust your Creator, and believe in Him and your dream. You don't need anyone's approval but your heart`s. The heart that's full of Allah`s love and obedience.

Don't allow toxic people or a stressful job to consume your life. Protect yourself. Develop the courage to do what you need to do. Your ability to be healthy, happy, and prosperous matters! Make the decision to do what you need to do in order to do what you want to do. Give yourself permission to live life on your true terms. You deserve!

I wish You enough..

.....

Recently, I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport as the daughter's departure had been announced. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said:

"I love you and I wish you enough."

The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom." They kissed and the daughter left.

The mother walked over to the window where I sat. Standing there, I could see she wanted and needed to cry.

I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?" "Yes, I have," I replied. "Forgive me for asking but why is this a forever good-bye?"

"I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is the next trip back will be for my funeral," she said.

When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, "I wish you enough." May I ask what that means?"

She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone." She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more.

"When we said 'I wish you enough' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them". Then turning toward me, she shared the following, reciting it from memory,

"I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye."

She then began to cry and walked away.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person. An hour to appreciate them. A day to love them. And an entire life to forget them.

......thanks to The Idealist

Al-Kassam Nasheed

what is love

kepastian..

Terkedu...terharu..dan pilu...  itulah yang wujud tatkala mendengar luahan sahabatku.. Di hati ini tertanya2 juga..apakah benar-benar sahih berita itu ( hati kecil ini tetap berdoa moga2 ia bukan suatu yang pasti).Aku benar-benar kehilangan kata2 untuk berbicara. Apa yang mampu aku katakan untuk masa ini ialah persoalan ' kepastian'. Pun demikian dari kejauhan ini aku tetap mendoakan agar Allah s.w.t memberi ruang jalan dan ketabahan buat mu sahabatku menghadapi ujian ini. Diriku sentiasa bersedia menjadi ' a shoulder to cry on' dan menjadi 'a good listener' selagi terdaya, insyaAllah. Luahkanlah apa yang terpendam di hati. InsyaAllah kita dapat saling nasihat menasihati…aku  akan setia menanti bicara darimu...

rintihan pilu Imam al-Shafiey..

allahouma salli ala mustafa

I've learned..

something I thought worth sharing..

Sheikh Khalid Yassin said:

I liked 8 things which made me cry:

1-Don't speak of your strength in front of the weak

2-Don't speak of your good fortune in front of one who is miserable

3-Don't speak of your freedom in front of a prisoner

... 4-Don't speak of your children in front of the childless
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5-Don't speak of your father in front of an orphan..for their wounds won't be able to bear more

6-Weigh your words in all your worldly matters and make the consideration of the feelings of others a part of your personality..somuch so that a day does not come wherein you find yourself alone with your wounds!

7-Don't dance over the wounds of others...so that a day does not come that others dance over your wounds

8-Be in life like a traveller and leave behind you a good trail for we are not in this world except guests and a guest only leaves. I will not gift you the sun or the moon because they disappear and I will not gift you a candle nor ice because they melt and I will not gift you flowers and roses because they wilt, rather I will gift you with my prayer (Du'aa)