Thursday 25 January 2018

Please use technology wisely.


Hi abg angah n adik...please catch up what i jst trying to say..
I have been saying this for a while now...
People no longer know how to communicate face to face. You go to a restaurant or anywhere out in public and over half of the people are not even speaking. They are  just looking down at their phones looking for validation, or to see how others "live", or to see how many "likes" their post received and "friends" they have or can acquire. I also think that in this day and age of social media, it has hurt a lot of relationships. The first thing we ( I am guilty ) do when we wake up, or when we go to sleep is check our phones, when the most important person/s is right next to us. Its funny how we miss the message and pick out what isn't the message, just to feel right...Technology will always be here but we Dont need to base our existence, relationships, connections, self worth and what makes us human solely on it that we incomplete without it...
I know the phone and technology becomes a necesity in the life, rather than bonus we can use sometimes, and we forgot what real friendship is. And thats so true. Friendships now are on facebook insta and so on. Sometimes to post your feeling is much more important than enjoy them. And everyone post just the good feeling, how well he is and everyone that watching that photo will feel alone because he is not as happy as his friends is...no one post photos when he fall down or when is crying and everyone will see how good life he/she has. And this is wrong. Not the other life is important, what he does and what not. Our life is much more important. To get out our confort zone to learn something new and to be happy with what you are and happy with your defects as well. Thats what i am saying. Thats why I say that everyone will be happy if the batteries are low. Maybe you can make true friendships, who will help you when you need it and not just pushing those like buttons which means if you have a lot that is so “awsome” and we are measuring our life in likes. If someone has only a few than probably we wont even talk with him. And this is wrong. ..

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